My Life and Education in United Kingdom

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July 24, 2011 6:10 pmLeave a Comment

I am a student at University of Worcester and it is located in a very beautiful part in the West Midlands. I found out that UW is one of the best up and coming universities in UK. I also found that UW Business School offered the right programme structure I wanted for my Masters. Also I wanted a good mix of programme, facilities and beautiful country atmosphere that is not very far from London. So I choose to study at the University of Worcester Business School which is one of the best decisions I took for my academic and career enhancement. 

I can tell that every day of my life is so exiting and I’m very happy with the education I received from the professorsand tutors. One special thing I have to point out is the student and the lecturer interaction is very high and the friendly atmosphere is a great motivating factor for my studies. Easily we could book an appointment or call our lecturers for further explanations and assistance on academic support. This gave me the best opportunity to clarify any issues I had during the lectures and course modules

 

Living in the halls:

As I lived in the University Halls of residents in the first semester, I found everything at my university doorstep. When ever I need advice on my course modules, I just have to book an appointment and if the tutors are free I immediately get the clarification by going and meeting them at the University offices. The international office is always there for us for guidance and help. Everybody is very helpful and welcoming to students. At any point if a s

tudent has a problem or need help on anything relating to their academics to living the new environment, I would say International office is the best place you should go first.

My past work experience is from the Hotel industry, and I always enjoyed me

eting and talking to people from all round the world. I find a similar atmosphere, as students from UK and different nationalities are studying all around me. The induction week is very memorable, when we were introduced to all the students and the staff. They welcomed us very warmly and we got that homely feeling even though miles away from parents and relations.

To all students, I would recommend to meet and greet and network with people. Share your friendship with your fellow students, some of those who are living away from their homes. And if you have any issues relating finance , health, career advise, work placements, most of the Universities have counselors and professional advisors who are there to help you at all times.

As an advice I would tell every student searching higher education in UK, you have all the opportunities and guidance at University of Worcester to succeed and contribute to the goodness of the society. You will meet people from across the globe and you have every opportunity to develop yourself and develop lasting friendships.

I wish you all the very best!

By: Fernando

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Self knowledge!

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July 24, 2011 6:41 pm6 Comments

6 important lessons I learned about self knowledge.

They are:

One: Think big, do not set limits for your capabilities.

Two: Best teacher for your self is you.

Three: Learn to accept responsibility, and never blame any one.

Four: If you really want you can learn anything you want to learn.

Five: Hardcore experience gives you the understanding and reflection for future.

Six: Never let anyone tell you, you can’t!

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A little bit of London’s Night life…

January 30, 2012 5:56 pmLeave a Comment

A visit to London will always be a great experience and memorable one. However it won’t be complete without a long lasting night out with your buddies or partners. To tell you, London has one of the best and sexiest of night life you could ever experienced in Europe. It’s very diverse and adventurous, and you will have plenty of opportunities to satisfy your needs and likes. The special thing is it has a wide variety of Pubs, Bars and Night clubs to cater different mindsets of people. If your new to the scene I would recommend you Timeout London as one of the best bogs on it’s style for more detailed information on the London places like where to eat, chill and all more.

When I first experienced the London night life few years back, I was thrilled to see the awesomeness this city brings to life. The vibe of the city calibrates around you and it gives you that sparking energy to life and your soul will be nourished with excitement and you would wonder what your about to experience next! To find a Awesome venue go to Late night London as this is one of my favourite sites if I’m late and want to check out the deals and how to get there.

From the excitement to the awesomeness there is always something to any type of interest people has when they come here. If you’re with family you can chill at an amazing restaurant and then head into a much social place like Oxford Street or Piccadilly Circus and see what you like and choose from a variety of Pubs and Bars. And if your looking for something more risqué, then that’s available to you at it’s highest level of excitement. If you want to see some of the most amazing erotic dancing and stunning hostesses, then you may get to places in Soho, which is the hardcore centre which can be called as the Red Light District with mind-blowing Romance and sexual energy.

If your not much used to walking down town in the streets before, be careful of the people who approaches you, it’s always better to have some social awareness and street smarts, as this is a place where you can be screwed to broke. I would advice never get into a Strip club, where you see, entrance free! When you see the bills for the two drinks you ordered you may throw up on the stripper and that’s going to be one hell of a experience when your beaten and smashed out the strip joint by those huge bounces.

Even I mentioned those danger points, which I had personally experienced, it is a safer place than most of the other European cities. Also in life it’s sometimes a little bit of adrenaline pumping experiences are healthy if you get out of those clean. However the city has got more security now after the last years Rioting with more Police officers are on the roads in night times.

One of the best things I love in London night clubs is that it has much better dancers and friendly people than any other city in the United Kingdom, I guess it’s mostly because most of them are tourist and they are here for a short time and they think whatever happens in London stays in London :) The night time drinking and music is so awesome and the clubs get filled up so soon and in Friday’s and Saturday’s it would be a very hard to get in to a high end central London club if you do not have a reservation or in the guest list. From the pulse rising dance floors to more intimate bars offers something for both hardcore party animals and those who are looking for a quiet drink and to make a conversation with  strangers to see where it goes.

I can tell that London has the most amazing diverse clubs in the Europe. It’s not only because the city has the most amazing DJ’s who come from all over the world to rock the clubs and show their skills, but also those high end clubs brings celebrities and some of the hottest models to host the nights. The glamour of those retro venues changes very often and it’s not what you get when you go there in a couple for weeks time.

If your very keen in dancing and want to have the best of night dancing your shoes off then you need to head to Aquarium Dance Club . The place has two dance floors, a stage, chill-out room and  the best thing is the amazing swimming pool to get down after a hardcore dance session. This is the heavenly way of clubbing at its highest standards. The guys change the place ever week so you never see the same place twice as it’s going to be totally new experience  and good times with sexy people.

After all the partying, you can cool down in the cool, azure pool or warm-up in the heated jacuzzi, towels provided.

So put on your party shoes and dance your way out of the rooms to the streets of London. This is a huge city and it offers so much for life with amazing things to do and nightclubs you shouldn’t miss in a lifetime!

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University life and networking

January 29, 2012 1:01 amLeave a Comment

I had to tell you those University years are the best of your years of your life if you had spent it awesomely! I still love those moments and miss it big time and now considering making some cash saved up for the next year + and joining an exiting Graduate program or even something!

When I look back at the time I spent at University, especially living at the Halls of residence, I hope every one should have at least live one semester in International Students halls. That is a life time experience and one awesome time of life.

Anyway I’m not going to talk about my wholly grail awesome time I lived during my university years, as it might be X rated and too much drunken nights and mind-blowing encounters with more than a healthy amount of random strangers. So let’s get into the article about how and why you should network meet and use your time at University for greatness and awesomeness.

How to become Social Animal at University or College

Start with a smile and a “hi” and introduce yourself, just don’t hesitate to go talk or approach that person you saw passing by (I missed a hell lot of opportunities due to not taking every chance..lol) if you’re a introvert person and bit too shy as if it’s your first year in a totally new country, studying with new people, that is normal.. But it’s not normal to not to introduce your self and get connected with new people. Life is all about changing and getting new experiences.

Developing your Inner Beast!

This is the best time to do so guys, just open up and get chilled and relaxed around other people; don’t get stuck up in your limiting beliefs like. Where you came form, your color matter or your too short to go talk to that 6 footer or some bullshit like that. Coz if it matters that’s their problem, not yours!!! Just know that every body is cut from the same cloth. It’s you who put those mental blocks in your self and isolate your self… I hope every one must have seen those people who vibrate and attract people to their awesomeness!! If you’re not that good at this, get on those people’s social circles and network. Once you develop that mind set, you will start to realize, that people get attracted to you and it does not matter that who you are. It only matters is how you believe in you and how you project your self to the world.

If you’re roaming around campus after lectures or during day time, make a conscious decision to talk to people on your way, it really makes you so much new friendships. And also during University, there should be no excuse to not to talk to other students. You just can stop them and say something like “I saw you doing so and so and it bought to my mind that I should come introduce my self to you and bla bla, I’m Fernando” something like.. Trust me majority of the girls do this lot, and that is why they have a much larger social circle and connection with others, and always has that guy for a shoulder or more!

I know there are some random students who would get this as WTF! Just ignore them coz they are no use of getting to know. Also just don’t think what others will think of what you’re doing. In my time in Uni, some of my friends really didn’t get what the hell I was doing. Just think about how amazing you are and do your thinks forks. Life is too short to not take that one chance which might only come once in your life time.

Social conditioning is something like going to the gym, you need to condition and workout on your social muscles every single day. This is the best time of your life to do that for free, without much of hard feelings.

Talking to people is a skill and it’s something you need to develop through doing so, especially if your into Business and management studies, this is very important. And one more thing which is very important is being socially aware and observation oriented about your environment and its people. How does the best of socially dominant people interact, what do they have that you lack!

Lessons and Do’s Campus Interactions

How to open a stranger

Hi (Or excuse me, in a bit busy situation), I just saw you and had to come over and tell you that you look like some one form the (Department) so what’s the story what are you studying? (These works very well during the early times of the semester)

Just go do it, don’t think of the outcome… You have no right to think what if she has boyfriends, what will happen blab la!! Just go do it thinking I’m going to make that persons day. Get all pumped up and take chances and make peoples days awesome. Do you know how these sorts of interactions work and where those go…? I had dozens of awesome experiences which went on from the Campus day time interactions to late night bed time activities and sharing moments. (Not encouraging this if your can’t get academics done by missing the night study session)

I knew some friends, who would just sit next to a interesting student and would not get noticeable effort to introduce them self to that person… What is a wrong people?, take those moments of gravity and get connected with the human beings.

Sample topics for great conversations

**So btw what are studying? **What made you study this and what did you want to do this? Add up your personal experiences and build on the words and move forward. I call this happy hour conversations, the time we all at the Halls come over for the meal preparations or to the kitchen.

This is where you make good times and connections and share your thoughts and see where they take you ;) I mean some encounters are very controversial but they have their own explanations and good times at the after kitchen parties.

Library Time

This is the time I made friends, I could never ever study as my eyes always move around the corner when that hottie walks around passing me! She must not be interested in me, but I had that feeling, she is calling me. So I go like a tiger and say hi..lol

Btw this has some good benefits if you’re smart or even if they are smart, you may learn a lot by exchanging ideas and talking to people from different parts of the world. This is one of the most exiting things I had experienced during my time at University.

How to get Dates

This is the easiest time of your life, trust me there is no other better easy time you will get once you pass this period of your life. I mean if you’re good at Social Dynamics it doesn’t matter. If you had learn the skill or has mastered it during your University days life is awesome all the time wherever you go.

Tips for success at University life

Be friendly and open minded and go for the opportunities. Be awesome and feel it, there should be no regrets or excuses for not doing so. Don’t hesitate to take a chance, go for what you want, for example even if you do not know the person is single or not, just got talk.. coz without talking and interacting you may not know it!  But finally make sure to study hard!

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Things to do if you’re in London on a Friday eve!

January 27, 2012 8:40 pmLeave a Comment

London is one of the best cities in the world for entertainment and excitement of the Friday evening! If you like to have some mind blowing fun with your buddies and the loved once the is the place to be if your not in New York for happy hour ;) .

However things are much better if you plan the evening in advance and head out straight after work without leaving it to the last minute, however things are exiting even though you’re a last minute person and didn’t want to spend much time for the eve, coz the city offers various kind of entertainment followed by awesome nightlife and events happening in London every Friday.

So that’s how a weekend should start for fun loving party people who want to live the awesomeness…

What I recommend for this Friday evening

Get out of your office or whatever work you’ve been doing for the rest of the week and get out there to a pub or have a early meal with the friends or hook ups…no reservation done for the evening? No worries mate! Coz there are enough places you can buzz in and have a good time. However keep in mind that those places get filled up very soon, so make sure to hit it up early and get your table for you and your people!                                                                                                      

Corner Room

Town Hall Hotel, Patriot Square, London, E2 9NF (no phone).                                                                                                             

Awesome place to be, trust me the place gets filled up very soon so get your asses over there soon. As the place does not take reservations, ether may be a long waiting for a table, but it’s worth it if you got the time to chat up and have patience till you get served. Check out the website for more details

Website:   http://www.viajante.co.uk/

Burger & Lobster

29 Clarges Street, London, W1J 7EF

This is some awesome stuff, if you’re in a mood to grab some tasty Burger or Lobster!!!

The place has its own designer atmosphere, as it looks like a pub converted to a restaurant, and it gives the mood for the evening as it looks very chilled and relaxing with the stunning mix of light and music.

Website: http://www.burgerandlobster.com/

 Union Jacks

Central St Giles, 1 St Giles High Street, London, WC2H 8LA

 Union Jacks is a place for the young dudes, more exiting spontaneous place to be. The inside environment of the place is so charming and delightful. Loved it when we first went there and its all enthusiasm by the staff working there.

Website: http://www.unionjacksrestaurants.com/

The Best and forever places to hit it up for drink after work in London

 My friends juts called me up and asked where he should take this girl he met today morning before work for a great drink after work. SO I had to search online as I didn’t know much better than in the club scene in London. This is due to I do not do drinking dates any more since I got matured with my Game. However after looking up on the Google I came across some awesome places which are recommended by good details. SO check it out as I have shared the link with you guys to get more details on that.

 Best Ckubs in London recommended by experts 

As I read the article and the details on about the places it seems very exiting and you may check it out and let me know how it goes.  So now you eat some good meal and had couple of drinks and all geared up for the night out. Make sure to have idea or check out the best places for the night! This Friday I would recommend Piccadilly as the Hot spot for the night!!!

First guys start out from my kind of Place The Piccadilly Institute The Place is super awesome and has some exiting tow floors with two DJ’s jamming it up in a night. The place is open till 3 AM and the place gets packed up after 12 AM. SO get you designer wear and move in tonight as the place litterally Rocks your mood up with Awesomeness. Check out the location on This Link You get get down there if you take the Piccadally Line on Tube.

My Next Suggestion for the people who want to have a more bar atmosphere with the club is the Rumba The place is great and the Dance floor is super sexy for the people who know the moves and want to get wasted on the dance floor shaking their asses and getting hitched ;)

Okay now the net one is the best and only place to get in for  a after Party or even straight inside at 12AM, the place is open till 6-7 AM and the its there place if your lost in night or not having the place to long out in Central London and does not want to pay for a expensive Hotel room. But this depends, if your with a girl and you think it’s appropriate to sleep with her, then go take up a Hotel room, and I’m pretty sure you can find one for less than 50 quid (But not really in awesome condition, but could help you out with your needs according to your budget).

So What is the place I was talking about!!! It’s DEN you party people.. Check the site, it will give you more details and the best nights and how and what will cost you to get in and all those. Normally it should be 10Quid at the doors, but you might get a good deal if your with a girl and the girls arm is wrapped up on your shoulder!!! Damm I really don’t like the way the world look at those Single Dudes, when they are out by their mates!!!

But I know I know, those dudes are bloody trouble sometime as when they get lonely and no one to get along with a interaction!!!That’s why these people need to learn Social Dynamics!!!

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The Beauty of having a Dynamic BODY!

January 22, 2012 1:37 pmLeave a Comment

It’s the ability to move your body and muscles the way you want and it relaxes, stretch the core to give you that perfect vibe & state of mind. Having a flexible body will determine your ability of the bones to be strong and the joints such as shoulders, elbows, hips (hips don’t lie ;) and knees to be highly manageable to any sort of situation.

**Flexibility and stretching improves you posture and low back durability by it preventing lower back pains, which you may get due to high stress work or standing for long hours. By stretching your body muscles every day, especially the core and the hip area regularly, promotes relaxation in the tissues by reducing the strain on your back.

A warm-up exercise like that at your home would increase the blood circulation and help you have the high state of mind before you head out of your house for a long night out or some exiting wild adventure with your buddies. **Please note that if you haven’t done those sort of hip movements before you may slowly improve to high flexing body movements and increase your strength and fitness levels to the next level like a Pro ;)

As the body gets more flexible and strong on your core, you can become the Dynamic person you want to be with that high intensity state of mind. Having a dynamic flexing body means like becoming the beast of your dreams with the dynamite mood ;) **trust me when the body gets to that level you start to feel the beat and the rhythm of your body connecting with your internal mind body structure with pleasure driven moments.

Dynamic Flexibility

This is your body’s extreme ability to perform like a beast with dynamic body movements using its full capability and within the full range of motion of your structure. If your new to the flexibility zone of your body it would be better of for you to start with some good Yogic Dancing movements like me, where I have been training Yoga for more than 5 years of my life, and Yoga is one of the most amazing things your body could learn for its fully functioning awesomeness.

 

If your see the video you can see, how easily I do that body flexing and twisting side to side, swinging my arms and hip muscles with a full range of lower body movements. If you’re a beginner you may perform by slow motion and improve your capability. When you begin to experience the awesomeness of your body you may realize that your muscles produce diminishing dynamic rhythm to you entire body structure. Trust me it feels good to be flexible and having an awesome body with fully functioning capability. It has so much of advantages, especially if you want to be a highly pleasure driven full on state of mind and body creature!

 

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Dance, flirt, Seduce and make friends on the Dance Floor this Christmas!

December 15, 2011 11:46 am6 Comments

When you have gone out for a while and practiced your step up skills and the moves for some time you will starts to feel comfortable enough to get on any dance floor. The best thing is you may more frequently face situations where opposite sex will turn their heads towards you every now and again and smiling at you and giving IOI’s and if your really good they may maintain strong eye contact, or even approach you and ask you for a dance. If your a man with perfect body movements and dancing skills, the women may be attracted to you or initially be an erotic provocation towards you.

All these positive IOI’s indicate you that she is interested in you and would love to dance with you. By this time if you find her attractive, it’s your obligation as man to approach her directly and I can tell you she will accept you if you had properly observed her IOI’s before you do the approach (It’s perfectly fine to approach anyone in club as it’s a social environment to talk to strangers, ** plz note that women loves to be approached and complimented in night outs..

**why do you think they spend hours getting ready to go out!! * we men don’t bother..lol). If she does not enchant you, a smile on her face will build your attractiveness in the eyes of other women.

Btw don’t worry about what others going to think if you get rejected! coz by end of the night you will be having a good time with partner while most of the people around you are stalking at you and other people are thinking and wishing if they could also have the time your having in the club in early hours of the morning!

Because giving a try or taking a shot to talk to a stranger and developing the social abilities is better than leaning against a wall holding pint of beer for a whole night hoping that she/he will walk up to you! Keep dancing if your out happy people coz it’s a great way to demonstrate your social skills while making new friends :)

I’m telling you this, coz I have done this hundreds of times and have made a pretty huge amount of connections and friends over the last several years of going out in United Kingdom! But the best thing was I had some amazing nights with wild experiences which got continued to the day time ;)

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Winter is on and have you decided where your going to be for Christmas?

December 15, 2011 11:40 amLeave a Comment

Do you know that this is the best time of the year to head over to London and have good times. At least try to go for a weekend if your really busy with your work or studies! If you think the world as your oyster, then London should be its pearl. We can call it because the city and the vibe it provides to the human soul is awesome. When you walk on the streets looking around, I mean crazy awesome dudes!!! The magical environment creates such an exciting place to live and it sometimes makes this an overwhelming paradise for the International people. Sad to say it, but there are locals who has not still gone and spent some proper time in London. 

And the other thing is, it’s the time of the year where ice rinks arrive at some of London’s most iconic locations such as the Natural History Museum, the Tower of London and Somerset House. Take a walk down the oxford street to see the beauty of human kind or stroll down Regent’s Street to see the famous Christmas lights before making a visit to the giant Christmas tree in Trafalgar Square, London’s yearly gift from Norway.

Throughout December you can have fun of your life as you never had before, unless you partied up in New York or some crazy place, like a maniac :) So have a plan and make some cash and head to London for a amazing time! ** which you would never forget. For my Worcester friends, I got to tell you all, it’s not that cool to stay over here during this time.. yeah yeah I stayed last Christmas as well as for the 31st night blast.. The thing was I partied in style! So head to a different city and have great time!!!

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The Best Clubs in Worcester to Bounce iN!

October 20, 2011 1:44 pm48 Comments

If you’re a outgoing fun loving person you should know the best places to go out in Worcester. So if you like to get down, Worcester satisfies your requirements, Worcester caters mainly for young people’s clubbing tastes. I thought to mention some of the best and must go out places  in your night outs. After living in this awesome city for almost two years now I could give you a brief overview of the top clubs that are too good not to check out!

Funk Worcester - One of the newest and interesting clubs in Worcester, Funk in Worcester is an excellent place to let yourself loosen up and have good time with your mates. Since it’s still a short time open, hope we could expect some really mind blowing entertainment happening there very soon!

I could see it pulls crowds like other Worcester clubs which were there for years. I love the music and the way it creates the environment for the young blood. Also it’s the first place the students who come to the city from the St. Johns Worcester University passes. So I would recommend dropping by and getting some shots and warming up your body before you walk to the city centre for more fun and wild moments…

Tramps - The best club for the Monday night outs in Worcester, Tramps has it all, from a top floor sound system to huge hanging kind of dance floor, which I loved doing the moves during the fresher’s weeks! And a awesome R&B room for the dudes to stand still, hold pint and stalk at beauty.

Mondays are pretty much for the University students and the drinks and the entrance is pretty cool. The the environment creates that vibe, especially the outside area, you can take your newly met strangers and have a conversation to see how the night could floor with them a or should you move on for the next venue!

Tramps gives that high time and the best opportunities to meet people and have a great times for the weekends. Saturdays are easy toget in as it does no have this all this “your shoes are not coo”l, “your dress in not appropriate”, blab la!!! So you could go hold a pint and chill in this converted Worcester partyhouse and keep a tight grip on your mates and prepare for a banger! Also I forgot to tell you about the large outdoor space boasting a barbecue on warmer days, this Worcester club is too good to miss.

Sin – The place to not to miss out on a Thursday night and Saturday night!!! This is a cultured clubbing arena and can be a great place for the young and dumb and want to get wasted (Kidding kids, act with responsibility and you will be fine). I couldn’t remember a day I miss those two days when I’m staying in Worcester, tell you the truth, its a awesome place to go chill and shake your body and do your thing.

I love the stage at Sin and how it gives you that momentum when you get on that and start stepping up! Yeah I know everyone loves attention and see how the people get attracted to you. You can expect a glamorous, commercial Worcester crowd at this funky house institution which is the sister of Bushwackers.

On Thursday you can get prepaid or stamp so you get in to Bush’s for like 2 quid if you’re under a tight budget kids. So go there and have fun as it’s sad to miss it out and stay home by yourself alone, remember the Winter is coming and it sucks to be by yourself on those cold times of life, get on with your mates and get that momentum for life people.

Bushwackers– I heard that this is one of the oddest clubs in Worcester and formerly the home of liquid and night out Hospitality, Worcester’s Bushwackers is a true rave club. Complete with crazy light displays and a great sound system, Bushwackers will please even the most hardcore clubbers in Worcester. I just love the underground room, I could call it hook up place, if you’re single and wanna mingle, girls and boys you need to check out that room.

It has so much energy inside and you will definitely be able to have good time and mate with a potential mate if you know the right moves and the mating skills! Look out for best student nights on Wednesdays and Thursdays and check this place out on Saturdays if you’re much matured who is looking for some good time with your mates.

I love the way it’s so trendy, intimate and mental; this club is impressively stylish with a party-style atmosphere. With its two classy floors and cool outdoor, this Worcester club keeps you want coming back every week.

Crown Plaza - For the more sophisticated clubbers amongst us who prefer a more relaxed scene, the Crown Plaza club in Worcester is the place to be. Check out the laidback atmosphere at its many of the matured people. I would recommend the place for some pre drinks with your friends and also for some after the midnight drinks, if your tired and wasted after some heavy duty dancing.

So these are my favourites but there are a bunch of other places to bounce in when you’re out, places are like Courtyard are so awesome to have a good time with your buddies. However it has a very small dance floor, so I won’t stay there for a long with my party people. So that’s it, ** Will bring you up some best activities to do on you night outs. I mean some mind blowing stuff you should, when you do that, you mates or the partners are going to tell ya “ man this is what I would call a real night out” I have heard it so many times! Wish you all good times Worcester people!

 

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What holds you back from taking action!

October 16, 2011 6:37 pm23 Comments

Lazy Ass: Opportunities aren’t going to come your way unless you take steps and go for it. If you really understand what LUCK is, it means Labouring under Correct Knowledge! So you see what it means ha!! In any area of your life if you don’t actively take action and move out, you’re not going to have fun or enjoy the beauty of life at its best. For example most of the people let their dating life set aside for chance: and the sad nest is for guys, if you don’t take courage and walk up and chat up a girl your not going to get picked up by the girls, OK yeah there are occasions where a girl might pick you! But that happens 1 in a million times, even for a sexy hunk! For human meeting and dating should be a lifestyle, because it’s not something that you should do every now and then when you’re really bored and frustrated. So the advise is make a solid habit to go out every week at least three to four times while methodically allocating time and managing your core duties and a responsibilities. Go get into a habit of taking action by getting off you home lazy asses.

Big Headed: This could be seen as one of the fucked up things and which holds people back form taking action in areas of their life’s, where they think, what if I fuck it up! My mates are going to laugh at me! Get over this stupid pride looser’s, because you’re never going to have a backbone or demonstrate solid confidence in life if you live in this mentality. I know bunch of guys who would love to meet some interesting women, but would keep them on their little world, thinking and wishing while other dudes, enjoys the life at their best. Hey listen fellas, do you think that anyone else has time to give a shit about what you’re doing??? Hell no, they have their own shit to handle, and they are so fucking worried like you trying to get it sorted. So stop worrying about your reputation and not taking action, put your imaginary pride a side and take action, and trust me you’re going to be happy about the new pride and confidence you earn in the long run!

Your Awkwardness: This one of the main things I don’t find any sense most of the guys have. Some people have a mentality where they get embraced from such little things such as; Talking and being open about their Sexuality, taking steps and getting rejected, asking for advice or help from others, take it from me, if your have a mentality like this its going to stop you form taking action, and in areas like dating and fun, you going to miss a shit load of opportunities and Good times. So identify what holds you back and immediately take action, because even fear only could holds you back till you do it once, then onwards your no more fear of that thing you thought could really effect your life. Feeling bad and not doing really fucks up you life and makes you regret from not taking that chance, because trust me if you give it all you got and still fuck it up, you’ll never going to regret that you didn’t do it. In life, you only regret about things you didn’t do, everything else is a learning opportunity and experience for your betterment and pride!

Anxiety: Most of the people are so stuck up in their little world being comfortable with what they have (perfectly fine if your happy) because they think that’s what they deserve or can get in life! That’s called living Limited life (Read the article getting rid of your limiting beliefs). We could see that people are living a commonplace lifestyle because it’s easy and think is cool. But trust me if you’re not happy or enjoying your current statuses, and you’re not still making effort to change it soon, then your going to be anxious in the long run.  So shake your self and ask if you’re living a life that you wanted or at least taking necessary steps everyday to change it. Now I don’t want to listen to your excuses. There are so many people who want to do something but would come up with all those nonsense about why they don’t have time or why they can’t do it! “ I’m too dumb”, “ I’m too ugly” (Yeah I know Looks matters, But you can change it if you take seriously steps to look at your best)” and blab la… But I don’t understand that there are reasons and some facts which would come across when your taking action, but that’s how it is, life has it’s own challenges, what you have to do is challenge it and take action towards success. Because once you’re successful in what ever the areas you wanted it’s going to be awesome and you’re never going to blame on those things you lacked.  Trust me every one has their own issues, but the difference in the guys who succeed and the once who don’t are, some don’t take action!

Lifestyle and standards:  Take a serious note of this, if your living an unhealthy and unattractive lifestyle, this is going to really effect in all areas of your life. Believe it or not, everybody loves the company of attractive healthy people. I don’t mean you have to be really born hot and sexy (Sorry in reality LOOKS matter people) but you can take steps and make your self attractive to others and live a fulfilling lifestyle. And it’s very important in the dating and relationships, if you’re not taking proper care of your package, please stop crying about not have good company of the opposite sex! First get your shit handled and then make a move considering the above mentioned facts! Becoming good with the opposite sex is becoming the best of you! Most people need to change their lifestyle habits and start thinking about their body shapes and eating habits. Best first move would be is to sing up to a gym with your mates and start working out, because that pumps good chemicals and give you the momentum to strive for success!

Being too Nice: OK, nice is boring, that’s one thing! Nice is no challenge, and sounds soft (Guys your girls wants it hard and confident; read the article on Internationals Dudes Club) I’m not talking about being a total jack ass jerk and treating people like dirt shit (even if every girl loves it every now and then). “Nice” is not being “Good” it has a big difference. Also you may know that nice is less attractive for women, they never want their man to be a pussy and doing what they want (even if they say I want a nice guy). Nice is trying to please someone, and manipulate to get something out of them, so when a nice guy open up their mouth, it sounds so boring to women!!! Get a life and be a challenge, and that’s very attractive if your a guy who want quality relationships. Have a Rock solid life style!

Get Serious: Every successful person in life has taken tremendous action to reach that life. It’s not going to come your way unless you take serious action and go for it. Life is all about action, and learning every day. Your living in the best times of the world, there are plenty of opportunities to develop get help and turn your life toward success in every aspect!  Also remember every action you take should be something you do it from you heart and soul, you must love it and see the end (Visualization; we will talk about it soon)

Stop Hoping and Take action: you can hope for years and nothing would happen. While your hoping your mates are going to take action and live the life you always dreamed about. I see this applies a lot in the area of relationships and dating, where most of the people, let it for chance, thinking one day that special person will come to me!!! Sorry to tell you, that happens very rarely and even if that happen, that might not be exactly what you were waiting for or you really wanted. So think for a moment or even a day, have a plan and go for it with all you got (if your not skilled or knowledge enough read for sometime and develop your brain muscles and put it into action) and that moment of life is TODAY and right NOW!!!

 

 

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Why everyone should learn to Dance?

September 24, 2011 11:25 amLeave a Comment

The beauty of the human body can be perfectly experienced and demonstrated by performing your erotic moves which invokes the emotions and the feeling good state of mind. It is the nature of our bodies to usually associate our experiences of life and create the best body movements according to a rhythm. There are a vast number of benefits you can gain by learning some step up skills or even mastering a particular style of dancing.  And the best thing is the benefits you gain from dancing would not only be for your body parts but also to attract the beauty to life and live the best life style you might not ever thought of before you could shake that body in a perfect style. If we look at our past every one of us might have experienced the good times where you had got cheered up and moved your bodies according to the music you hear! The feeling of music gives energy and excitement for your mind and body to live in its perfect state. So make sure you go for a dance at least every couple of days … But I would recommend every night, you should be dancing after a hard day of work to stress out your bodies and souls. 

During the past few years going out excessively and almost dancing every day, I figured out that there are some really good benefits for life if you could learn some step up skills and some Erotic dancing moves. So if you’re interested let me talk about it and you may think about it for while and decide if you want to live that perfect life style at the peak mindfulness!

To fully explore and learn in deep about your self:

If I tell from my own experience, I used to Dance since I was a little kid back home in the beautiful island of Sri Lanka. As I grew up near the beach, the life was a party and music atmosphere was always near my soul. So I developed a passion for dancing and started to experience the beauty it gives to the body and mind by perfectly being able to move my body according to the rhythm of music. If we look at the science of dancing it forces you to tackle yourself and develop human body to be able to perform and succeed in many other areas. I developed dancing skills to be good at various areas of my life, it helped you develop co-ordination of human interactions, to connect better with your body and with others and become a truly happy passionate person who loves to make things happen in the social environment. The best of all is you will learn to perfectly deal with you own inner feelings and become the person you always wanted to become by balancing the ego and intuition to become stronger and stronger every time you Dance!

To live the best lifestyle at a peak performing Healthy body & Mind conditions:

The research has shown that dancing helps your body in many different ways. The recent studies found that when you’re dancing, the brain releases chemicals which help you protect from depression and sadness. I guess that should be the reason that, I wasn’t depressed or had sad days which I could remember during these years :) . For anybody to be in a great mind condition is very essential for your life. After a great dance your body has fully stressed out the bad chemicals which you developed while working at the office and having a busy life style. There is another great benefit, where a long night dance could help your body to be at a great shape while eating out all those junk food from those fast food outs (however I don’t encourage those food, **there is nothing better than a home-cooked balanced meal for the body). But let me tell you, you only get as much results as you put into yourself, for example if you are passionate and dedicated to learn something and invest time on it, it would pay you back great dividends! So if you want to be good and get those healthy benefits, just shaking your body for few minutes isn’t going to do much good. You should make it a life style, such as going out at least three to four times a week or even, you can join a dance club at your city and if you got crazy partner who would love to dance the shit out of each other, that’s it you got a life! Because after a great night out of dance you get that perfect sleep which isn’t like anything else for your soul :)

To improve your muscles power and perfect state of body:

I have figured out that dancing makes your body alert and respond well to the social environment. It gives your body a training to make you better at the musical rythms and develops a great awareness to the nature and its signals. Learning and practicing dancing for a long time would open you new doors to life. One special advantage I have gained is, this skill has transformed me to have a great timing of the body which shortens your normal reaction time and given the perfect masculinity which makes me more active and highly influencing charismatic social animal. But take my word, this took me years, however the results are solid.

To become successful and create a large network of new friends wherever you go:

Becoming a dancer or even learning some basic step up skills with some perfect body movements you could create that perfect vibe wherever you go. I grew up in different countries as my parent used to travel so much working at different cultures. This might also be one of the reasons why I become so good at networking and developing friendships with people from different backgrounds and ethnicities. However in my adult life I have created so much of life long friendships and met beautiful people because that great vibe I carry with me wherever I go. Because dancing has helped me refine myself and develop my social skills and it improved the life almost in every area I wanted. For me dancing is a passion and art of expressing myself to the world while being extremely happy and mindful. We could also see it as a social hobby, where you can go join a club and meet people. And I have to you tell this, if you’re a good dancer there is greater opportunity for you on regular outings to meet potential partners or network and get to know interesting people on every night of the week! The world is such a beautiful place and it’s not a place to stay in not meeting people. Coz this might open you new doors to life and show you the best side of life with total excitement and awesomeness. I can guarantee, that dancing attracts people from all walks of life, if you’re good at it and have that vibration of happiness rolling with you, you will start experiencing what I’m talking about. Also when you’re having more choices in your life, such as friends, potential partners and mates, the more freedom you have in your mindset. You will start to live the abundant mentality which would be a great blessing for life! One of the other things is that you will have excessive amount of energy and you are never tired, and this would give you the strength to help others and be the person they always wanted to hang out with. Believe me, you will find your inspiring people to take action and this would create solid relationships!

Being a confident attractive personality:

When you become good at one area of life you will automatically start to become good at other areas of life. In my life I’m having a great lifestyle and still got my academics done as I always wanted. Because when you start to learn more about your self and become happy about who you are, you will succeed. Especially when you trust your intuitions and be proud of who you are you can use that mindset to do the things you want more easily. When you live an active lifestyle, the body pumps good energy and it gives you the momentum for life to push yourself out of the comfort zones. There are various types of dancing techniques, and you should identify what you’re passionate about. Some people might not be flexible as me, so in those cases you might have to check what style would better suit your body structures and interests. If you’re a very active person, salsa would give you that perfect vibe and the energy to your soul. If you kind of rigid and a less flexible person, Tango would be a great start and it would develop your skills to proceed to other dancing techniques. Ballroom on the other hand would provide you the skills and techniques to get on the perfect state of mind and Bachata connect with the partner. If you need a perfect workout and still stress out your body and shake that ass, you may learn some free-style mixed with up with contemporary and Hip Hop. Life is good when you know at least one of those styles :)

The best experience you can gain by learning to dance is that it has certain benefits to become a passionate person with a maximum energy level which enhances your life and performance. But if you’re thinking you’re too late to learn to dance, sorry to tell you, you’re fucked up and you’re missing out in life. I can tell you with my own personal experiences that dancing literally opens up doors for your life. So stop having limiting beliefs for your life and get that moves and do some step up tonight at one of the hottest clubs in the city. I know it’s easier said than done, but once you got that ball rolling your never going to stop rolling and will be living the RockStar life style!

 The greater benefits for life:

You become so good at it over time and you will start to live your exiting life style. If your a guy let me tell you, you need to brush up this area of life because the feminine likes the erotic moves and I could see that they kind of equates dance into sex!!! But please act with responsibility don’t break hearts or play around with this positive side effect you have develop in your life. For girls, you need this skill, if you can’t dance or move your body at a perfect rhythm, guys don’t want you. Yeah there might be some douchebags who would approach you and like to have your company, but those douchebags are some boring shit. Your going to be high time fucked up and wishing if I could! (Wishing is not a strategy, and it gives results very rarely)

But in some cases you might be labelled or banned as a SWAGGER for demonstrating highly attractive body moments, but don’t give a flying fuck about them! Just do your thing Guys! In the long run you’re going to live a lifestyle that every one would love to be around you.

Becoming a great entertainer is one of the best ways of living your life and this skill provides you the road for it. If you have seen why so much people go out to see people dance or even sit down and relax while experiencing that awesome vibe of the dancing environment, you know what I’m talking about! For my life this opened up so much opportunities and whole new ways of looking at life and learned to appreciate the artistic side of life. I hate it when people tell “I’m too tired from work and I have to get back to office tomorrow at 8 a.m.”, but what do they do??? Just sitting in front of the PC and doing unimportant things or in the worst case, watching porn and jacking off or watch the TV which kills their time…. That time you should be out meeting interesting people and living the party of life. You get only one life to live it all, so just don’t sit your ass of in your house just wishing if you could? Just go out do what you got to do!!! Live an awesome life style while accomplishing your major priorities in life and become a fully functional person.

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Get rid of your limiting beliefs !

August 3, 2011 11:42 pm16 Comments

In life some people may seriously miss out most of the amazing opportunities due to the limiting beliefs which holds them back from taking action. Because those beliefs controls the subconscious mind and how you interact with the social world.

If you grew up under tight control of your parents and if had false beliefs with introvert behaviours since a young kid you might tend to be a more risk averse person who might miss out the beauty of  life by taking exiting chances. For example if you believed failure is bad you may not want to try out new things. And keep in mind, if you want to learn a new skill, start a new business, take a challenge, dump your annoying girlfriend or the boyfriends who can’t take a decision!, you must have a grown up mindset and strong heart.

Most of the common examples I have seen in especially the people who has that limiting belief of “rejection is bad and its very embarrassing” would never walk up to a stranger, in simple terms they’ll avoid approaching a new person they just saw, which they thought might be interesting to get to know, so what happens is they’ll miss out those amazing opportunities of the social connections. Believe it or not almost every successful person is a social animal. They always take that opportunity to say “hi” and make that “Million Dollar” smile. 

Also there are other situations where the limiting beliefs get installed in your mind. For example if a tradegic situation occurs suddenly in a persons life, they tend to get shocked and the body might react as its scary or bad to be exposed again. And those interpretations disempower the person from taking action and might limit what can be experienced in life as a full potential human.

How to remove the limiting beliefs

First those limiting beliefs should be identified by being aware of them and asking your self why your not doing certain things! Even though you know it would lead for an amazing time ahead. But take my word being aware isn’t enough, you need to take courageous immediate action to do what you fear. If you fear of approaching an interesting person you saw, you should within the first few seconds of that though you should approach. In social gatherings such as in a night clubs, or any other place or even it might be your sitting in the London underground tube!! You should be willing to take up that voice inside you and strike up a conversation in a human manner. Now look, I’m not talking about opening up with that ass hole tone and being a jerk…. There are places and situations that works as well!

Another thing, if your consider rejections  is bad or you can’t take up the pressure or man up your self as a confident person, your going to hide away or not be noticed for that perfect opportunity. Coz in life it’s all about taking that chance and getting screwed and learning from that experience by doing it again until you succeed. That’s the learning cycle. 

Now have a look of public speaking, majority of the population think it as a scary experience or they think they might make errors and be embarrassed in front of the audience. But unless you take courage and do it again and again, that belief is going make you a nervous person. During my last year, continuous going out in different cities in UK, mostly in Worcester, I have seen people who would see that beautiful person smiling and passing by or next to them in a crowded bar or club.. But what would they do, most of them would hold the glass of beer from one hand put the other hand in the pocket (Guys) and wispier their mate “I wish” but what if you walk up and say “Hi” and continue by what ever comes to your mind.

Because I can personally say from the experience in most of the time the girl would smile and you may get to start a interesting conversation and get to to know and make a new connection. Or she may politely smile and look way,  unless you say something total jackass to get a rude respond!

** Remember body language and tonality matters!!

We will cover it up in another article.

 

Till then live with confidence and take up that opportunity!

 

 

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